opposite attracts, but same charges more understanding...

For so long I be keeping my relationship to the greatest extent, finally its over for me. Keeping and maintaining one is really tough. I really think I'd done my best and that's what important most. At the end whatever the result is,its faith...
I always think that opposite charges attract and it is..but there's a flaw in an opposite charges relationship. A big flaw. Especially when totally opposite...you see,opposite charges, they don't understand each other. For sure because he (for e.g.) cant place himself in her position. He don't know what it feels to be in her place..simple analogy...a couple, the boy like to eat spaghetti so much that if he doesn't eat once in a week, he loses his appetite but the girl dislike spaghetti so much that she cant stand the smell then when the boy said he loses his appetite and wants to eat spaghetti, the girl will say "what,no..there's plenty of food better to increase your appetite such as chocolate" you see, at the end, the girl still didn't understand how the boy want to eat spaghetti so much...there's lot more to mention...just that right now I'm not in the mood...overcoming break-up is really depressing when we really care about someone. I had once feel it after school that it takes 3 months to heal. Syuhada oh Syuhada...where are you now...

My advice, just don't really go for opposite charges although it attracts but it really will not end that good. You be suffering living with someone opposite to you, not much understanding and you cant share doing things you like or maybe you cant do things you like that you have to forget about it...hm...